THis is exactly what happened to us.....My wife had a regular and she was fucking him weekly or more apparently as I found out she didnt tell me everytime they met up...We did stop, was a life event but since we have had zero sex or not much at least, we have tried a few times over the last few yrs but she basically doesnt get anything out of it with me so never cares if we do or dont and she has resorted to some pretty intense toys....Im resounded to being a cuck from now on, shes uncertain about becoming a hotwife again because she really couldnt get enough once she got going. She wanted it all the time and I wasnt allowing him or her other friends in our home. His created issues.