Don't try to play this off, please. This is honestly pathetic. Look at her comments before that post:

I try to follow his rules but I’m not good at it enough for him not to throw this tantrum of sending me to my dad’s house. I definitely lost my cool but I’ve been dealing months with this “sending you back to your dads,” “the way your parents raised you.” Him threatening divorce if I treat his dad like how he treats mines Etc etc so yeah I got mad and yelled in public. I think that was what put him over the edge. I don’t think that was the right thing to do of me, but I can’t visit my parents without his permission so I don’t see them often enough to feel cool down. I don’t see my friends/family often enough for perspective. I’m just so lonely in his house that feels like a jail when he doesn’t allow me to go outside.

He’s ready to divorce me if I talk to his dad about how he raised my husband, yet it’s OK for my husband to devalue my dad like that?

Every time I want to invite a friend over, I ask my husband for his permission. Make it clear, follow his rules. He agrees and all was good. Say he gets mad at me over something unrelated, then he’ll tell me to cancel my friend coming over. So I cancel it, which hurts a lot but ok. You have the right to not allow people over that you don’t want.

This will drive anyone to insanity. This is more than just "marriage is a struggle" this is a form of control and abuse.

You clearly have some sort of agenda against divorce, which like, who LIKES DIVORCE?? but with you spouting that nonsense to people who actually need it can be have some serious implications. For her, the grass IS greener.