Guys will do anything to fullfill their lust. They will lie and slander for it. Nobody will respect you if you don't respect yourself. A woman is a present onto the man so be that present, let him earn that present. Don't be a cheap thing and unbox for anybody. Know your worth, if he wants to unwrap the present he must earn it. And the only way to earn it is through marriage. Don't let men fool you around with false words and fake gestures.

Ask your parents or aunties around if they know someone suitable for you. Pray and make dua, ask forgiveness and don't be sad. We live in an era where zina is normalised. Most men have lost their chastity, these are often the man that demand their spouse is a virgin. Which is something that is really strange in my eyes but still, don't worry. Allah swt will guide you and your future spouse.