Thank you for clarification. I did feel a little picked on, but I can usually assume it's sensitivity to rejection and get along anyway. There is almost always more common ground to find with a person even when you disagree about other things.
I joined this sub one Day1, only reading and not speaking. The moment I spoke there was confrontation. I mean, opening my mouth (literally or figuratively) is a common source for confrontation; that's why in 9 years of reddit I don't have much karma. Despite my diagnosis I still feel "outsider"ed here. Probably because I relate to low needs autism more.
I will remember that this is the oposite the others. e.g. the levels that get support.
Usually 1 2 3 and here it is more 3 2 1