In reality whether you like this post or not all it was was for something that people might have an opinion on to comment on. If you're married and you feel like this is something that you shouldn't do all I wanted to hear was your reasoning why then I can be like OK well I see that reasoning or oh i never looked at this way. People want to take it as "why does it matter?" "People this and that" it's like people go on reddit to get people's opinion, you go on reddit to start conversations, you go on reddit to see why people feel the way they do, to get answers about things. Yet here I am doing that exact thing and people are attacking saying why are you posting this? why does it matter? OK so why does anything matter? Why does it matter on the am I the asshole pages? Who cares about their stories? Why are they posting it? Who gives a shit? Why does anyone post in the Flagstaff page? Who gives a shit about the mail system? Boohoo you didn't get your mail. Who gives a shit? What about the snow? Who gives a shit about places to go walk. Like get over yourselves if you don't like something, if you don't like the reddit post either report it or ignore it.