Hapa man here, I would like to be an ally

Aznidentity is so nasty towards Asian women so much of the time that I left it. It does seem like it could be a safe space for Asian men, I suppose, but the attitudes I see towards us there and often on Hapas is appalling. Sometimes we aren’t even safe HERE. I can remember instances of men coming in, taking screenshots of our posts, and then posting them in aznidentity to tear us down. …and the attitude that both of those subs has towards WMAF is gross. They don’t take into account any different circumstances, as far as they are concerned if you date outside your race then you’re a traitor and a whore. And half the time if you’re a woman posting, even if it’s not about dating, they’ll immediately start accusing you of only being into white guys and therefore unworthy of being heard, even if they have no evidence to support this.

Does not exactly feel like a safe space.

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