OMG people with BPD aren't crazy or unstable or oversensitive, that's hateful stigma from misinformed ableists who like to blame others. The reality most people don't know is that making other people miserable is like the total opposite of Quiet BPD, which is actually really common but most people never even notice except for good therapists who understand. The real problem with having an FP, usually, is that pwBPD are so empathetic and trusting that they get taken advantage of by people who act all perfect but actually aren't when you get to know them, and then it's like "wow, what else are you hiding? Now I wanna know!" And that's when you find out the world can be such an awful place because people just don't understand how much it hurts when someone shows their true colors.

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You absolutely fucking rule, Buffy. My pwBPD is ten years older than you, but you are light-years ahead in your self-awareness and humility. Always good to see...