I wasn't necessarily referring to people who don't want to have sex, although of course they shouldn't be shamed. Even among the left there seems to be this idea that the archetypal socially awkward nerd is fair game, with insults often thrown around of men being incels or virgins. It's strikingly similar to the alt-right mocking men for being betas or cucks, and what purpose can it possibly serve but to try and emasculate them? If a man with a normal sex drive fails to be sexually active, does he deserve to be shamed? Not to mention that perpetuating this idea is undoubtedly harmful to those who don't want to have sex.

There's nothing wrong with criticizing people for having unpleasant personalities, and I think I misunderstood the comment I originally replied to. Still, every time some crazy Maoist Third-Worldist makes a comment about all sex being rape, people are always there to accuse them of being virgins or having never had sex with a woman as if that in itself should be a reason for them to be ashamed of themselves.