My boyfriend is at navy OCS, when do they get their phones?

I don't have any answers to offer about when your spouse will get their phone, but I do have some advice about being upset that your bf didn't reach out (if that's what happened)

You kind of just have to trust that he will reach out when he is able to do so. My husband and I had endless fights during his 2nd deployment (first one where we were together) because I would find out that the boat had pulled in somewhere and he didn't immediately reach out. It caused a TON of resentment on both sides and we were miserable the entire deployment. He is on deployment again right now and this time I have trusted that he will reach out when he is available, and it's resulted in far less fighting or resentment. Try not to be too upset with your bf, as I'm sure he loves you and will reach out as soon as he can.

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