married a year and a half.

Incidently, most of the best and strongest gay relationships I know, are of guys who didn't support gay marriage, precisely for rotted, shitty people pretty much the entire marriage and lying about why marriage was necessary at every pass. Don't get married just for fashion, get married because you want to spend your life with this love, not the next few hours til you both get bored.

Only people who have issues are people trying to play house, with relegated roles of mom and dad to the top and bottom. Tacky if you ask me.

Hope your divorce didn't clean your bank account, because in this case, I'd support the notion that you owe him half.