Need accurate legal advice and suggestions on best way to finally confront my nfather in person to get the money I am legally owed and desperately need.

I have been diagnosed in my 20's with depression, PTSD, anxiety, parasomnia (discovered during a sleep study), and insomnia. I have also been diagnosed with vaginismus, and have some very troubling and debilitating specific symptoms which lead me and some doctors to wonder if there was also sexual abuse that I have repressed. When I was 21 (nine years ago), I found out that my father (who had raided a family safety deposit box during my parent's divorce) had along with my sister, forged my signature on a government bond my grandparents had taken out for me as a child worth over $4,000. The bond office sent a letter saying the bond had been cashed, but I never cashed it nor did i know it even existed. They sent me a letter of the bond, and my signature was forged and the return address was my father's business address. I was still in college with 0 dollars to my name, and he has assets worth more than 1 million dollars. I confronted him, he admitted to doing it and said he was entitled because he had paid for my undergrad tuition. He had also paid for my brother and sister's undergrad tuition but did not steal their money. I demanded the money back, and he refused. I then said i would go to the police to report the forgery and theft, to which he then agreed but told me i would "pay for this". That day, he removed me from a family health and car insurance plan and cell phone plan, and added his girlfriend's kids instead of me. I had been laid off a month before. I tried to report the forgery to the police, but they said it was a civil matter because he had paid me back. He always pays for you if he needs you, then drops you as soon as he doesn't. It has devastated my life and caused me as much trauma as the physical assaults.

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