What a nightmare. I think she is aware that Samantha is one, but her dad playing her like this may have opened her eyes to him. The sick thing is, narcs like her father and sister, do not want reconciliation. His response is typical narc nonsense. Here is a quote from him

I want nothing more than to sort this mess out. I would ask her and Harry to contact me. All it would take is one phone call and most of this craziness would stop.’ 

Translate this through the prism of narcissism/PD madness and what he is really saying is " I want nothing more than to continue to be the victim in this narrative, so please play along."

No contact. Radio silence.

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