I would like to say that I saw a man comment VERY respectfully in another post that he was in this subreddit to support and understand his wife

This is the basis of why I am here.. I am not here to get off on anything (as others have said, if i was, there are plenty of other subs suitable for that). I'm here for perspective,tips & ideas that I can use to help my wife. The closest my wife comes to using social media is using Twitter, she has zero interest in websites like reddit.

I don't remember the last time I commented in this sub and have never DM'd anyone in here (frankly any questions I could think of asking have already been answered in other replies in any post on here, negating any need to contact anyone directly anyway) .

I get why you wish to preserve your safe space, the stories mentioned in here about the negative attention gotten from the reduction posts is a bit disturbing. I cannot speak for others but I'm not here to tread on any toes, really. Sorry again to hear about the creeps, really, that crap isn't ok and it isn't just yourselves that dislikes it.