I wrote down everything she said regarding reasons for Ameer being abusive:

always jealous, made her choose between her and best friend

threatened to leave if she didn't say I love you first

friends called him controlling

disapproving when she was out late

started yelling at the airport, didn't know which terminal to go to, screamed to the point where she cried

washing dishes because she's a nice person, yells at her for washing dishes with cold water

walking on eggshells, felt like she was being ignored

she finds it easy for her to talk about cus it was in 2015

"ignore me a lot, to the point where I would just take naps, and wake me up and be like I love you so much" (classic signs of abuse apparently)

also, song he wrote for her, really misogynistic, have dropbox (don't want to share it though) talking about her eating disorder that she wasn't open about.

in bed, he would do things that she wasn't okay with, and she had bruises that were black and romil can apparently attest to this. (but then, later on, she refused to answer a question on whether Ameer was forceful during sex)

she heard he was fucking an underage girl, like more recently, but when she was seeing in 2015 he told her that hed being seeing a girl underage and that

she said she's moved on (but still decided to bring it up 3 years later)

To me, this seems like Ameer just being a bit of a shitty boyfriend, nothing more. The fact that she says stuff about being abused in bed and then backtracks later and refuses to comment on the same topic when someone asks about it in the comment is pretty suspect. Just seems like she's trying to overdramatise it a bit.