MGTOW predates incel as a term by at least a decade, so that's a pretty odd definition.

Wikipedia lists the first formal usage of MGTOW as occuring in the early 2000s, the first incel community was formed in 1993.

It's par for the course for critics of both though, who can never seem to get beyond shaming men for not basing their self-worth on women's opinion.

If you think that's what's happening here you're more delusional than I initially thought. I questioned your statement not your value as a living being. You're the one that started asking about deplatforming (a fictional SHTF you've created for yourself to feel like a victim).

I don't base my self-worth on what women think of me either. But women (and men) are an important part of life. I'm not swearing off either on the basis that they won't fuck me.