Like I said, if someone chooses to use her services and feels they gain something from it, that's fine. But preaching this stuff to people who aren't asking for it, as if her view is the absolute truth, is ridiculous. I have no "stake" either, I'm very feminine myself. I'm also bi and happen to be attracted to more masculine women. I think her idea of masculine women is straight up lies. I'm not angry, I'm just calling it out for the nonsense it is. There's nothing wrong with being anywhere on the spectrum. This person is claiming that there is. And that it's not a personal choice but a reaction to gender norms. And that it's better to be feminine. How is it judgemental to say that people shouldn't be telling others how to live their lives unsolicited.