What it means to be a man

Sounds like being a woman. If you look at men’s inability to express any emotion that isn’t anger, you can see that the “emotionally strong” man has been stunted by this fake ideal of manliness. Repressing feelings and inability to communicate aren’t a strength and they lead to serious consequences in men. Women never asked you to be this way- you guys decided amongst yourselves.

You should never have been defined by your ability to get girls, nice cars or have money. None of that has anything to do with masculinity.

It’s also weird how you define “provider”, when it comes to women as financial, but then it becomes emotional when you talk about men. Why not both? Why do you always have to insist that men and women are so fundamentally different?

/r/lostmanfound Thread