You want to mooch

I would definitely agree that I prefer to leech more than I give. I don't see a problem in that because Law 11: Learn To Keep People Dependent on You. I give little tidbits of information to seem knowledgable, but never enough so that they can rise too far up. This follows multiple other laws including never putting too much trust, always saying less than necessary, use selective generosity, and others.

I used to be really helpful, coach younger guys, and even throw in some RP knowledge but all I got from that was disrespect and no gratitude. People aren't self-aware enough to know that they can change, so they don't put in the effort and feel shitty around you because it reminds them of their failure. People don't like being told what to do or listen to beliefs unless they actively seek you for this information. You also Keep Your Hands Clean (Law 26) because you aren't responsible for people's fuck-ups from following advice. Instead, I Play to People's Fantasies and tell them shit like, "Bro just be confident in yourself and you'll find somebody. Love yourself before loving someone else." That isn't a total lie and helpful in the right context, but it also isn't detailed enough for them to fuck with it.

I found that it's better to just spread positive/good vibes. Just good energy with zero information. "Sweet nothings" is a word for it. Just exclamations "Nice dude!", congratulating someone, etc. so that they associate the good feelings with you. This works especially well on chicks when they see you they instantly smile and go "Hey!!" because they know that being around you is associated with being happy. I'm still working on "adding to the vibe" but this is the most recent idea that's given the most results.

I'm definitely open to your input though, I'm still learning as I move forward. Idk I hope I gave some insight on why and how I'm thinking the way that I am, despite the fact that it seems "beta"

You don't even understand the meaning of alpha

I see lots of stuff thrown around about what an alpha is but the main definition I like to stick to is a leader who is congruent with himself and his thoughts, feelings, and actions.

Any and every group you join will have zero barriers to entry and filled with Cucks.

Never saw it this way, thanks. I didn't realize barriers to entry were a thing, how would you recommend getting into higher value groups? I keep to myself and stay true to the quote, "If you're the smartest one in a

You want to hide within a group.

I don't want to necessarily hide within a group or team, but I know that college is my one shot to forming a solid friend circle. I know this is scarcity mentality as fuck but I truly believe it's true because it's the only place we're surrounded 24/7 by people in our age group.

I also don't want to hide within the bounds of a fraternity which is why I also asked for alternatives.