See my dad is really old time mean. If I did anything wrong is was getting hit. I avoided the guy all through highschool by getting into every sport and club I could. Said I had to study at the library but really just getting high at my friend place. He's still a physical mentality but is frail now. I actually pay for a woman to come clean for them once a week. He's a nice guy, just from a different time. You know how people think construction is tough for verbal abuse? I was a bully pretty much first day. Nothing phased me. I have never been scared to fight someone, which has led to only having 2 fights in my life. Once in grade school and one as an adult. That's a good trade off.