Look dude, you accused someone of victim blaming when they didn't even mention the victim. That is ridiculous.

Then I pointed out that it's not victim blaming, and you refuse to back down even a little bit. You're saying we can "agree to disagree," and that it's "your opinion," but your opinion doesn't make any sense.

The guy you were responding to said absolutely nothing about the kid or the kid's actions. Therefore it is not possible that he was victim blaming. Ok? It's not a matter of opinion, you are wrong. I'm just trying to clarify this so you don't make the same mistake in the future, and hopefully gain a little self awareness.

You may very well have a correct point somewhere, but you certainly haven't expressed it. These are both valid responses to what he said:

-He should be able to express himself without risking physical violence

-I don't see any problem with what the teacher did

Saying he's "victim blaming" is not. It's like accusing the man of being sexist- It doesn't make any sense because it has no basis in reality. Likewise, saying he is "victim blaming" when he didn't even mention the victim or his actions is not victim blaming.