38 (M4F) Orlando, FL • Seeks Ongoing Sexual Relationship with Submissive-Leaning Woman (SEE COMMENT FOR MORE)

Tall, fit, respectful, dominant gentleman seeks an ongoing, monogamous, casual sexual relationship with an attractive and local woman.

Specifically I'm looking for a partner who...

  • ...places a premium on sex AND connection; you love passionate intimacy and the bond with another
  • ...sees sex as adventurous exploration of the act itself, your own self and your partner
  • ...loves kissing and foreplay
  • ...is going to tease and flirt with me even when we're not together to keep us wanting it constantly
  • ...lives in the Orlando area (within 30 minutes of downtown)
  • ...communicates openly, honestly and constantly

What I Bring to the Table

  • Someone who's honest always. I will be transparent through and through. Ask me anything and I'll be a straight shooter. I also don't "leave you on read" or ignore, nor do I play games. I am also averse to drama.

  • A partner who takes what you want and desire very seriously. I want you to be satisfied and if I can contribute to that end, I want to do everything in my power to do so. I invite you to share your kinks and to want to explore them together.

  • I'm not a "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" type of guy. I want to get to know you, vibe with you, and, sure, make you my fuck toy. That also means I'm not going to pump and dump or leave/ask you to go right after. Let's have the full dopamine experience you can get by being intimate with the right person. Sleepovers are optional (as in no pressure) but know I enjoy them.

  • Being that I'm health and safety conscious, I like to take care of myself. A lot. So I eat right, work out, and set boundaries. My ideal partner does the same. I'll be my best self so you get the best me. Win-win. And let's be honest: sex is much better with a healthy and strong person, physically as well as mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. BTW, I'm STD and drug-free and we would get tested if things got that far.

  • Sexually I'm dominant. That means you'll know you're mine through my actions and presence. You'll also know through my words, my tone, and even my gaze. I'm much less of a sadist and more of a gentle, pleasure dom. My hands and more importantly my grip will be felt all over and throughout. My hands slapping your ass, wrapped around your throat, pulling your hair, caressing your breasts, gripping your hips, squeezing up and down your legs to your feet, grazing your asshole, and, of course, tending to your clit. Lots and lots of kissing, biting, and dirty talk too with some teasing thrown in... That's more than enough for a preview.

  • I can host. I live in a great, clean place in a safe area. I also live alone so we always have privacy.

My ideal mate is:

  • Attractive — Subjective, I know, but if you can objectively say that you're considered as much by the majority of people, you're in the ballpark; I'm not partial to an exact height or exact weight but do prefer C cup or larger
  • Sexually Positive — Sex is important to you and you don't shy from what you desire and deserve; you also have a high sex drive and interest
  • Submissive — You enjoy giving yourself to your man which, really, gives yourself the ultimate pleasure; having a tendency to want to take action in your own hands by mounting your partner or taking him in your mouth is undeniably welcome
  • Slutty — Another one of those that is open to interpretation, so to clarify, you leave your inhibitions at the door; maybe you're loud, expressive, an exhibitionist, have a dirty mind, are kinky, entertain taboo thoughts... all ways to potentially describe you

We Do Not Match If...

  • You're male
  • You're a couple or in a relationship (unless it's with another bisexual woman — I'd be crazy to close that door)
  • You live outside the Orlando area
  • You have children
  • You have pets (I love animals, but this simplifies things)
  • You're not willing to verify up front and within the first couple messages
  • You don't match what I'm looking for

You're Definitely A Match, Now What?

Send me a private message or chat request. But you must do the following in that first message or I'll know you didn't read this post and/or you aren't really serious.

  • Highlight at least one thing from my post that resonated with you the most
  • Attach or link to a photo of yourself (can leave out face but let me see a full-length photo of your body so I can get a sense for physical attraction)

If you are all about feeling like your best self with the right person in the most intimate of ways, then what are you waiting for? I look forward to getting to know you.

/r/orlandor4r Thread Link - reddit.com