I get it. The heartbreak is real. It fucking SUCKS. But the reality is, you’re posting in a larger community, where the users are of all different ages and all have different experiences with TTC. With the varying degrees of not quite “getting the cycle right” to having diagnosed infertility.

I don’t know how long you’ve been in this group, but the fact that you’re title says “feel like throwing in the towel” when you’re only 21 is just tone deaf. Take a look at the other posts/comments in the last month to see what some of these users are actually going through that are real physical barriers to getting pregnant.

I will attribute this to you being young and unaware of how your words can hurt people. And I hope you take it this comment (and the others), and reflect on how you choose your words going forward. Both online, IRL, and with your family/friends.