My oldest his father is in ga and hasn’t called him in over a year and owes about 20k in child support says he will go to jail before he pays for him and Gunnar’s father has never met him I was blocked by his entire family including him when I told him he was born they are all addicted mom dad siblings down to both grandparents living in extended stays I’m not worried at all about their fathers taking them or even trying I just hate that my boys are growing up without their fathers my heart is breaking for them every day especially now that my oldest is in school and he sees other kids and their dads I didn’t wanna see that same pain for Gunnar I wanted him to be stable and have a mom and a dad my heart is broken I truly thought I was giving him the best