I did all of those things and didn't have to have kids to feel fulfilled. I'm confident and happy, too-- I just struggle with a diagnosed illness that you've decided to shit on me about.

Is having kids an illness? Didn't think so. Yet you-- who is so 'educated'- doesn't realize that substance abuse disorders are serious neurological disorders? What a lovely person YOU are! Was your education a high school diploma, perhaps?

In all seriousness, I can't imagine you achieved anything past a standard bachelor's degree, so I don't think you 'got an education' at all. People with down's syndrome get bachelors' degrees nowadays.

But I'm glad you stuck to your dated ideals and prioritized pushing out babies. you've really done something with your life!