First thing that comes to mind: “wow I hate that outfit” Second thing: “and that beard” But there’s hope! Ask a (girl/guy) friend to help you pick out one new outfit and one new pair of shoes. Doesn’t have to be fancy/expensive but def something a little more stylish and modern. Maybe try a new fit/color of jean. Right now it looks like you’re wearing my granddad’s boot cut garden trousers. Experiment with colors (gray/white/black) and with a tailored fit like slim or athletic cuts. Get some brown leather boots to go with the pants. Not work boots, comfortable and presentable boots that you would wear to work or the bar.

As for the beard, are you familiar with the term “neckbeard”? That’s what I’m seeing in this photo. It doesn’t look good. It never looks good. You should not let your facial hair get further than your jaw , otherwise it just looks unkempt and lazy.