The couple you think should break the F up

I agree, however I think that commenter is saying that Tom clearly wants children and Arianna does not. This is a dealbreaker for most couples, as it should be because it’s a very huge decision. If Tom truly wants to have kids, and that is non negotiable for him (as he has expressed in the past), then I would argue that it is essentially unhealthy to stay in this relationship. This is a very easy way to build resentment and guilt.

I think Tom probably changed him mind but just hasn’t expressed it on camera. That being said, it would be Tom’s responsibility to leave if he truly wanted kids- that is not Arianna’s problem. I could see Tom still staying despite his desire to have kids because Arianna is dealing with depression right now, and he wants to support her. If the children thing were to be an issue, it would definitely come up once their friends start having kids, and not necessarily now.

Regardless!! Once again, a really interesting and relatable topic that would be a lot more interesting to watch than a lizard funeral, or the emotional abuse of Kristen!

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