Conversely, it is extremely offensive to infer someone's first family is fake - which is the opposite of real.That's insulting to that person as well as their first family.

I didn't though. I think both families are very real.

The logic you are using would contribute to more people actually making it to person hood and then being divorced from their bio-family.

Personhood is a philosophical term. I think it would be more appropriate to say birth.

One has to look at the bigger picture, and instead help the many people already here instead of fragmenting families.

If a fetus/preborn child is in fact a human person then they are already here. Are different ideas about this is where our problem lies I guess. Again, fragmanting insinuates something negative yet, adoption also creates family and in my opinion should be viewed in a positive light.

Finally, the words we choose reveal our sides.

Ok. I wasn't trying to hide anything. I come on here a lot. Everyone knows I am pro life.