Have you ever (correctly) had a gut-feeling to dislike someone who, on the surface, was a cool person that everybody else liked? What's that story?

One of my classmates, we were friends through friends. At first I didn't like her solely because she would always ignore me but after spending so much time together through our mutual friends we became "friends". We were in a friend group with 4 people, including her and myself. She never wanted to hang out with me or talk to me. I got the message and just stoped talking to her when we were in the same vicinity. I explained to the other two that she did not like me, but they dismissed it as her being shy. Ok that's fair.

For the next three years of school she would continue to shit on me. When we sat together at lunch she would but her backpack in the last remaining seat, I was always the last one to lunch so that was more or less my seat. "Hey could you move your bag?" was met with eye rolling, sighing, and all around acting like it was a big fucking deal.

She would also make passive aggressive comments about my body ("oh you have an Asian flat body, you have no waist"), yell at me for not being a massive SJW like her, and blame me for random shit. For example she signed up for the same gym as me and wanted me to go swimming with her, I said I would go but wouldn't swim. I'm not a fan of water because I'm a horrendous swimmer and have nearly drowned (multiple times)because of it, she knew this. So I did as I said and she was pissed that I wouldn't go swimming and instead would go running.

There were multiple times where I confronted her and let her know that she was being a bit of a bitch and asked her, pretty politely, to stop. She said she would and she did, for a week after each confrontation. Then she would go right back to being an ass fuck. At the end of those 3 years I texted her and asked her "if she had an issue with me" and she had all these reasons for not liking me including: me finding new friends and my personality. So I got tired of her and cut her off.

She did not like that. She first went to our mutual friends and told them that I was being mean and that it was hurting her physically and mentally (oh fuck off). I actually felt genuinely bad and offered to get coffee with her to try and work some sort of peace treaty out. "I'm busy this week" ok whatever. Two weeks go by no response. I decide that I want to go to lunch with our mutual friends. I had been invited by one of them and I decided to go since she ignored me before and I doubted it would be any different. She found out I was coming to lunch with her, asked all our friends if any of them had Invited me. She couldn't figure out who invited me so she sent one of my friends to come tell me that "it might be better for everyone if I don't go to lunch" with them.

That friend later profusely apologizes and shows me all the texts that this girl had been sending her. She had accused me of appropriating her culture (learning a language) and making her quit swimming. This friend put two and two together and realized that our "friend" was a raging bitch and we both cut her off.

Did I mention that she's also a control freak? One of her mind servants not listening to her?! she couldn't have that! So she and one of her serpents went around trying to get people to not talk to me because I was a "bitch" (and I think they also called me a sociopath?) but no one cares and she ended up looking like an fucking idiot.

I've been able to go about my life without her and it's been great! Ive made new friends that aren't complete fucktards. I've actually heard that she still can't stop talking about me! Glad I'm still in her heart ;3 got to say "I told you" to my now best friend.

TLDR: broke up with my this snake friend and she wasn't having it. To bad for her neither was I. Also got to say "I told you so"

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