It also speaks volumes about the sex negative nature when a man who is supposedly killing his desire to have sex in a married committed relationship is the understanding morally upright man but the guy who would leave her, even if he states this reason will be known as the tharki good for nothing wants only sex fuck boy type of guy.

How come no guy who marries virgin feels defiled then? I know plenty of guy friends who have outright rejected even simple advances from women because they're saving themselves for marriage and don't want to date. They have also guarded their bodies throughout their lives.

I personally know so many cousins and distant relative guys in my own family who have been rejected for their past and soft word spread around to not marry your daughter to lafanga, laundiabaaz, etc but they did nothing more than what the modern college educated girl is doing.

Do you just believe in most conservative middle class families guys can just go Mai Karke aaya like Hardik Pandya or something?