I’m also a tall woman who isnt dominant and am not turned on by being someone’s Amazon or any of the jokes people make. I’m feminine and fairly submissive. We’re out there and it’s fine. Height has nothing to do with someone’s sexuality. And please stop thinking your height is the issue! There are tall/dominant men out there who can make you feel small if that’s what you’re after. Finding dates is way easier for women than men, regardless of being tall or even having any feature that’s “objectively” unattractive (being tall isn’t included in that).

And how people make choices with dating isn’t that cut and dry, so stop letting internet conjecture get to your head- it’s not a good representation. I don’t really think everyday people assume tall women aren’t feminine unless they’re insecure themselves and have a reason to project. I really hope you feel better. You’re perfectly fine the way you are and valid