Do not worry at all about the league situation.

I work in a mall where I see opposite couples far too often, to the point that I have finally just accepted that that is a thing.

If you don't know the term "sapiosexual" , it pretty much just means that someone is aroused by another persons mind, as opposed to their body(or at least there is a much stronger emphasis on the mind)

As for making out with no hands, given that I am an able-bodied person, I will have to compare it to being tied to a chair(this is /r/sex, accept it;p). One of the hottest things when I am sitting and can't use my hands is simply having the girl sit side saddle on my lap and have her lean in for the kissing. I specify having her lean in for the kiss for 2 reasons:
1. This establishes the "mood". Lets you figure out how if she wants something passionate, something dirty, something rough, or something gentle based pretty much in how she kisses you.
2. As a "kissless" virgin, there is a high probability you wont really know how to make out, and frankly making out can become a turn off quite quickly if done too poorly. But by allowing her to more or less take control you can get a better idea, at least as far as this woman goes, what is good and bad. ie. many women like a small bite on their bottom lip, but it doesnt take much to bite too hard on a lip. Amount of tongue is extremele important. Your tongues should meet but it shouldn't really ever actually go into her mouth(or at least not far), from both sides, having a tongue constantly jammed into your mouth is just not overly enjoyable(thats not to say that sucking on a tongue for a couple seconds like it was a dick doesn't have its own place though)

As for having someone transfer you to bed... Yeah, there is no real way around that, it's awkward, and unless she is able to do it, I don't know what else to suggest unless you have the money for a machine to assist (my mom nurses in old age homes, at 130 pounds she put people to bed that are several hundred pounds), but those arent cheap:/ The only thing I can think of that might help with your feelings towards is that she is a nurse who deals with this on a regular basis, so it's probably a much bigger issue in your mind and probably a non-issue for her.

As for cuddles, they are awesome. I don't know the specific nature of your disability, but I would strongly suggest trying multiple different positions to find one that you and her can comfortably maintain. Cuddles are key, js.