Our situations are very different. We lost our daughter at 24weeks and under went a D&E. So I’ll reserve any advice and let those with more similar situations speak here. I just wanted to say, it will change you, it will change you marriage, it will change your friendships, and your life. But all of that change can be positive. It will never ever ever make the pain or the loss worth it, so please don’t mistake what I am saying. I just mean that, your marriage can be stronger than before, you will know yourself more deeply, your friends will show up for you in way you never imagined. It will be ok. You will be ok.

I am thinking of you and will be. You and your husband are incredibly strong in the face of unimaginable tragedy.