I've become a little more sure of myself, understanding that everyone around is just winging it just like me. My mom actually helped me understand that it's okay to not be good at something but I should show up and try. Mala mahiti ahe it sounds cliche though. I know losing or gaining weight shouldn't have a say in how you feel about yourself but losing weight helped me feel better about myself. Before that I wore that baggiest clothes and always had my hair tied up.( Not saying that anyone who does this is doing anything wrong) This kinda helped me gain thodu sa himmat to talk to people. Ani you already know grills school so I thought boys were gonna be difficult to talk to and worse to make friends with. I've overcome that. Also people around me telling me that I'm good at something even if it's something little or the once in a while praise helped me. I might've gone off topic about what you were asking but now I'm a little better than I was in school but I still am nowhere near where I'm supposed to be in terms of having better relationships with people around me or getting out of my comfort zone