The Sheer Number of Married Fathers who have hit on me since I began puberty 16 years ago is the primary factor as to why I became childfree from an early age.

Here it is, warning, it's very long. So my husband's (who was then just my BF) oldest brother was getting married. My in-laws have a very large house with an elegant backyard so it was the chosen wedding venue.

My BIL had his brothers, as his groomsmen, and the bride's sisters were her bridesmaids, but her maid of honor was the creepy blow job guy, I'll refer to him by a fake name, Ricky (sorry in advance to all the good Rickys out there).

So it's the day before the wedding. The Bride and her sisters are away staying at one of the sister's houses so she could get ready and do that whole surprise the groom thing for the wedding. However, my BIL (the groom), my spouse and I, their other brother, and Ricky were staying overnight at my in-laws to help set up and get ready for the wedding the next day.

My spouse dropped me off before he went to work that day, he has 12-hour shifts at the hospital and his shift didn't end until midnight.

Once the groom and all the other guests including Ricky settled in, my FIL and MIL wanted to go to the grocery store to get some last-minute things. They asked who all wanted to go, and everyone, except Ricky and I, needed something, so they all left, so in the end, it was just Ricky, who I had never met before, I left at the house. I really regret not going.

Ricky sits down on the couch with a tablet, and I go off on my own to read outside on the patio until everyone else returned. A short while later, I was surprised when Ricky came outside and sat near me, introduced himself, and started a conversation. For reference, Ricky isn't that much older than me, maybe 6 to 8 years older?

He talked about the wedding, which had a geeky theme, and I'm into geeky stuff so at first, the conversation was flowing and normal. Ricky shared he would be wearing a red Star Trek shirt as the maid of honor, and I thought that sounded hilarious. I didn't get any creeper vibes at first.

***This is when things are about to turn really crazy. Ricky starts turning the conversation into how much younger I look than my age (late twenties) and about how he knew my spouse since he was a teenager. Then out of nowhere Ricky injects that he has an INCEST fetish, and I would make the perfect daughter in a sexual roleplay. He said we could have fun "playing" together.

I kind of froze up at that moment. I had been sexually assaulted twice prior to this, and it was a lot to suddenly process, my mind kinda went blank, I was struggling on what to do next, the fact that I was at my in-laws, a wedding was about to take place, and I was alone with this creepy guy who just said something fucking crazy.

So then he takes the tablet he's been holding, and starts skimming through images of random families clearly taken off the internet, that's he's saved to his gallery, but starts saying that those were people he had been in consensual sexual relationships with, there were a lot of mothers and daughter pictures. At that point, I nodded my head and said I had to go to the bathroom.

In the bathroom, I texted my spouse that this Ricky person was being really creepy and I didn't know what to do because how am I supposed to ruin the wedding by revealing that the maid of honor is a creep and kind of a psychopath? Does the bride not know her best friend is like this?

I wanted to just leave, but my spouse had dropped me off before work so when I left the bathroom I went up to my room quickly and locked the door. Because my husband works in the ER and I didn't think he'd get a chance to check his phone, so I messaged my sister. I told her everything in detail and she told me that the best thing to do was to not tell my in-laws until after the wedding.

Well, everyone came back from the store shortly after that, and my MIL called my name, I went downstairs, at the time I didn't see Ricky lingering around, my MIL asked where he was and I said I didn't know, but my BIL said he was in his room and was laying down since he didn't feel well. I felt so relieved. I helped my in-laws with some more quick tasks then went up to my room until my spouse came home. I explained what happened, he was furious, but since everyone was already asleep, I said it would probably be best to just mention it until after the wedding.

With the help of my spouse, I was able to avoid Ricky until the reception part of the wedding. However, when my spouse and I were walking to get some drinks for the toast, and Ricky was at the table blocking the cups, my husband grumbled out, "Can you move?", and Ricky replied, "I'll do it if you let your GF give me a blow job."

That's not the end, but that's where I'll end it as it's already so long. My spouse did tell my in-laws after the wedding and they said they would never let Ricky back in their house again. My BIL and his now wife had zero reaction other than Ricky is crazy, so I guess they did know what he was like and didn't care.

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