3. Maybe unpopular opinion about Caputo & Me Too

Maybe unpopular opinion about Caputo & Me Too

I think the point of Caputo’s story this season was that you don’t get to decide whether or not you hurt someone.

I've to disagree with that. I totally get what OitnB tried to say and also what you mean - but I'm also soooo missing a very important part of that: Humans are humans. 'Listen to the victim' doesn't work every time because people will abuse that. Just think about the recent case of Jussie Smollett as an extrem case where that mentally would have protected the perpetrator. Being the victim is also often used and abused to gain certain goals from getting attention to get financial advantage. And don't (!!!!!) get me wrong, I'm not saying every woman is lying or anything like that. There are perpetrators! My point is: Humans are humans and not robots or saints, where every 'victim' is just telling the truth w/o any 'interest' in how they try to tell the story. Over-simplifying such cases with 'You made me feel uncomfortable' won't do any good to anyone. And obviously Fischer didn't feel comfortable when she was fired - who feels comfortable when getting fired? But it just wasn't because of personal feelings but because she was undermining and speaking against her boss in front of the crew in a critical and stressfull situation. In my opinion Fischer misused the #metoo-movement here for personal gains. Yes, Caputo wanted to date her - but he didn't fire her for her being not single. He fired her for acting out in a crucial situation against her boss in front of the whole crew. I wish they would have handled it better. Because as you phrased it 'you don't get to decide whetere or not you hurt someone': Well, what if I declare now your comment here hurt me, too and made me uncomfortable? That would be ridiculous, right?

Also a crucical point to the whole story: They even need a genital wound ripping apart to make Caputo look like a fool. Swip the places and it would look horrible: A woman suddenly getting blood running down her legs from some operation down there while she trys to explain her point of view. Yeah...

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