You can't educate dysfunctional individuals who don't know they are dysfunctional. They are self righteous being fake positive doesn't work either. Just distancing oneself and living your best life and being careful who you surround yourself with and recognizing patterns before you commit to people. This is how you keep Satan out of the home. Because devils don't walk around with tails and pitchforks...devils resides in people who look just like you and me. You must use discernment in life. They will drain the energy out of you. I am very successful now but it didn't come for free. I'm working on a book too. I hope my story can help growing adults and older children who didn't have happy homes live productive lives and not create cycles of hedonism. Particularly children whos families are 2nd and 3rd generation immigrants, because I believe this society has alot of confusion in it and its getting worse. People need to revert back to the ways of their grandfather's particularly in morality.