I would never dump a girl just because of the "baggage". We´ all have something, we´re all essentially just small broken things. I do have trust issue though, maybe that´s why it´s so odd to me, when someone does that almost casually. Now deal with it.

An equivalent would be if I told her on the first date that my girlfriend died a two years ago and that I tried to kill myself not long after that, but I won´t, because it´s somewhat selfish. I want her to have a good time. Maybe we´ll click I´ll eventually tell her. Maybe we won´t and I will never see her again. It´s just not something I would do. I don´t think it be fair to my date. Anyway, thanks for getting my point.