My wife totally went from 4-6 times per week to once per month after giving birth. I did my best to be understanding and supportive, always expecting it to turn around. Then one year went by. Then two years. Almost three years and I finally had to sit her down and figure out what we needed to do here, because it’s not working for me. We now schedule sex for once a week. Not ideal, but better than nothing.

The point to my story: it may not get better. Your fiancé is being la jerk about this BUT I do understand where he’s coming from. In some of my angrier/frustrated moments I wanted to do the same thing. There’s a tough dynamic change that happens when you have a baby, and no one is prepared for it. Best thing to do is communicate, be honest with each other, and everyone will need to sacrifice some things to make it work.