My former bully(middle, and 20) pictured with her 33 year old husband. Not pictured to the left is her 4 year old son.

I dunno, am I the only one in this comment section that actually felt a touch sorry for her? Neck tat older husband and early pregnancy aren't generally indicators of a well adjusted young lady from a stable and loving home. Bullying generally arises from deeply seated personal anxieties. She probably lashed out and bullied because she felt insecure about herself and never learned any better way of controlling or communicating it. God only knows now how she feels about herself now that's she's essentially locked herself into this lifestyle. Can you imagine their marriage? Do you think she's learned normal communication and coping skills? Or maybe she does the same exact thing to her husband now. Maybe they just go about belittling each other all day, putting up with it because no one else will and they're desperately afraid of being alone with themselves.

Of course, this is not to belittle the psychological effect of being bullied. I had a series of bullies myself for the majority of my school years. Looking back, I can't help but feel sorry for them too.

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