My K1 fiancée cheated on me. How do I move on?

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MESSAGE THE MODERATORS MODERATORS krispykrackers jamt9000 flyryan Ooer ImNotJesus ducky-box canipaybycheck noahjk GustavoFrings roastedbagel ...and 44 more » account activity 1 My K1 fiancée has a relationship with a new guy a month after our engagement in Thailand. She went back home a week ago. How do I move on? (self.AskReddit) submitted 25 minutes ago by Gotplayed2015 1 commenteditsharesavehidedeletensfw all 1 comments sorted by: bestDISABLE INBOX REPLIES (?)

formatting helpreddiquette save [–]Gotplayed2015[S] 1 point just now I met my ex fiancée on fb two years ago. Six month after knowing her on fb I had decided to make a surprise visit. We got along great. It was a dream come true. I visited her 3 more times. We got engaged traditionally April 2015. I attended her k1 visa interview and she passed. However she did not seem excited at all. Things were different during my last visit. She was not as nice, less patient with me, argued with me a lot more, and everything I did gets in her nerve. I brought her to the USA anyway because I love her. She came to the USA two months ago. We weren't getting along. She didn't want to go out, learn English not visit my family. She likes staying home and being in her iPhone. We have 90 days to legally marry but it didn't seem to me she wants too. Because we were not getting along and I didn't feel loved, I hesitated as well to get married legally. Everytime we argue she threaten to go back to Thailand. I bought her ticket to go back twice. Twice she decided to stay. It hurted because I loved her. I wasn't sure why things were going downhill. She wasn't the same person I knew two years ago. We fight again then fur the third time I bought her an airfare. I was hurt but was ready to call it quit. It was becoming too painful. I supported her and her family back home for two years, help them with medical consult and bills. I gave her everything as the average income there is $140/mo. Two days after buying her the third airfare I found out she has a relationship with a guy in Thailand while she was there. She told me she met him a month after our engagement. My heart broke. She cried, apologize but my heart was already damaged. At first she denied the infidelity, but after the pics was shown of her kissing him, she was shocked. I invested so much time, money, emotions into our relationship. I'm having difficulty believing this is happening and deeply hurt. Not sure how I can move on. I need help and guidance. She left last week to Thailand. This is the most difficult thing I had to face in 34 years of my life. The girl is now gone and will no longer be able to enter the states. I said that I would forgive but know that things will be the same. She said she love me but she she had done was not forgivable and decided to end our 2 years relationship. I know she loves him.

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