He still has all his mental and the upper body functions intact.

He doesn't seem to have all his upper body functions intact based on how he moves his arms and hands in the video.

I don't think this is about being "closed minded about disabled people."

You're not wrong that a person may feel completely different if they found themself in this position, but you can't say many people wouldn't still rather die.

I'm not sure if I'd rather die, but I would absolutely not want to burden my parents and family like this. Now, I'm not making any judgements towards this person, that's just my own feeling.

I don't care how much my parents loved me, I don't care how "willing" they were to care for me like this, I absolutely would not want to put them through it because I know it would most definitely be a huge burden on their lives. I'd rather suffer a lower quality of life and in a long term care facility if anything, than allow my parents to take care of me like this. Despite what they would say.