Punishment is supposed to be for discipline. For me that's sgoeijng I pay attention and care enough to help my sub get back on track, get her priorities straight, grow, learn, get where she wants in life. I get to be caregiving but in my own unique very low-key sadistic way... I've been way too soft and have finally decided to really take on my role and step up because we have only started bdsm and are still only learning. It allows me to become more commanding, demanding, and a leader, start building up my confidence and assertiveness/agressiveness. She's bratty but without really expressing it, she's a rope bunny apparently but we've got a long way to go before we get to do doing rope bunny things. She's been writing crazy amount of lines this week and it's made her much more submissive or start acting submissive. Something about being called those names that gets me going. Plus it's always been my number one thing to be able to pick up, carry, and have my sub Kitten sit on my shoulders as I walk around.

I mean who really likes Punishment and discipline, especially when it's not physical for masochists? No one. A silent hold nose or coin against the wall whole standing or kneeling should be a sure way to get improvement, that or no cuddles and intimacy until behavior improves. So on and so forth.