I’m gonna play devils advocate here. Are you sure you’re a brat tamer? It sounds like she’s doing these things to 1. Possibly cover up your dynamic so no one suspects (even if they don’t suspect, she could still be nervous about it) 2. Get a reaction out of you 3. Get a punishment out of it.

Like everyone else is saying, talk to her. And don’t have a conversation, be a tamer. Sit her ass down, spank her (if she likes that) and tell her the way she has been treating you is unacceptable and that she’ll be punished every time she does it. If this is her attempt at being bratty and it doesn’t turn you on, you need to tell her to find other avenues to brat with.

These are basic things that brats will do to get a rise out of their Doms …