We’re not judging the younger person sleeping with the older person, we’re judging the person in their 30s fucking a teenager whose frontal lobe hasn’t even fully developed yet (age 24).

Those relationships are always predatory and unbalanced towards the older partner’s side. Also, there’s something clearly wrong with the older person if they can’t find a partner their own age and have to find a teen - it means they’re either extremely immature for their age or they’re specifically looking for a younger partner they can manipulate or who won’t see the same red flags in their behavior that an older partner would.

No one’s out here judging the teenager for getting preyed upon, at most we just think you’re naive.