Self improvement = soft power

It’s not hating on em it’s just using them as an example. Also yeah those guys might get some gothic girls but it’s nothing compared to how much a hood dude gets is what we’re saying. You think I’m lying? Majority of the black male YouTubers that discuss these topics usually complain about how the more whitewashed/less hood you are, the less girls you get. They even have a name for it. It’s called “Pookie and RayRay vs Educated Lame. Pookie is the “hood” guy and the Educated lame is the more “preppy” guy. I didn’t create these terms I’m just mentioning what I’ve seen

Oh and trust me I’ve been in black spaces they talk about Desis as well. If they don’t try to make brown friends it’s usually cause brown dudes are some programmer nerd dude obviously it’s not gonna work.

For a brown dude who has broader hobbies n stuff the race thing doesn’t matter

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