We met on PoF. I messaged him. When I met him, I was a nurse and he was a dishwasher.

He was an incel until 30. I met him after he'd fucked several random women. I didn't hold that against him, though.

Now, I'm a nurse manager and he's an engineering tech (3 year college program).

If I wanted to "trade up" I could. But I - and many many men and women - stay in a good relationship rather than constantly trying to seek out a "better one." Because relationships are more than looks and financial benefits.

Realistically, my husband gains more from our relationship than I do. But I love him. And he's a good man. So, I'm paying for him to go back to school. And I mealprep all Keto meals for him to help him lose weight. And I encourage him to exercise with me and the dogs.

But, I guess all of that goes against your "women are all vapid, filthy whores" narrative that you've so lovingly cultivated.