If you accept that men and women are extremely different biologically with different desires and goals, then why can’t you accept that “femcels” have it just has bad as you do (albeit in a different way)?

I think this is well written and it's interesting to think about fertility and how that impacts things, thank you.

I don't personally relate to the male things presented here, though, and i think there are many examples in the world that contradict what is written, so, i'm not sure if the concluded source of these issues are correct. I think there's more culture at play here than biology.

It seems to me like the dating world would be much easier for women because most men are forced to initiate in order to have any hope of getting anywhere, whereas not as many women are in that situation. So, in the sense of "getting to first base", even many "cel" women seem to accept that they can at least get that far (but are sad about never getting any further).

However, when it comes to LTR, though, since most people are monogamous, and there are roughly as many women as men, i'd think that as many women are lonely in this regard at least.

I can sympathize a bit for that, but i admit it's difficult to because i'm still concerned with getting anywhere at all. I do know that there are at least some women who struggle with that as well, btw, just doesn't seem to be as often as men (but i'd love to be proven wrong, i'd actually prefer to be wrong on this).

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