Just cause you graduated engineering ill answer cause i know how hard that shit is. Right now i am also going through the motions of becoming an engineer in a hard dicipline that requires ridiculous outdoor work or sometimes you just stand there. So the first time i heard the term incel was last year from a cuck named based shaman who lamented about bullshit positivity so curiosity got the best of me and i first went on incel tears and i asked a question if i am an incel. Didnt get a response so i lurked and found a thread about them bitching about braincels so i went there and was amazed. My type of sarcastic humour and terms like hole and such, stuff i used constantly and irl, were in this community. This seems to be common, alot of newfags in the community start off by enjoying the memes, humour and terminology: the incel terminology is really practical, i saw in one thread that you can summarize a person in 3 terms which is true. Relating this to my position of sometimes standing there doing nothing at my EIT job, i would constantly browse, laugh but more importantly notice certain axioms that were being thrown around which slowly were being explored. For instance, how significant looks were and the idea that your whole life experience is dependent on looks. I was under the false illusion of constant self improvement when no matter what i do, my height (5'7") in combination with the serious money im going to make is just going to make me the perfect betabux. Seeing the tinder experiments and what you holes really want solidified it especially through watching FACEandLMS. Learning phases like the cock carosal, hypergamy, the general treatment of holes in society; all very eye opening. Its a blessing though as being a future manager, this lens gives me a great perspective to analyze a person and to not get fucked over and be shocked that a hole cheated on me with someone with better and taller bone structure