Listen, me saying “your feelings are valid” to her is not in anyway strange for us. She was NEVER treated properly by any of her exes. She always told me that she wants to be heard and to feel like her opinion matters. THAT is why I say that. Period. There is more than people know. Yes, here is acts of service but how? I always do the dishes and the laundry. How is that fair to me that she can’t send a simple emoji back or some kind Non- logical words? We have discussed this many times and here she goes, picks and chooses the days she wants to respond a certain way.

I sometimes want my needs met. I don’t feel like I really get that.