I am curious as to your motives. Shutting down a nefarious website is one thing. I would applaud that effort. Contacting wives is totally different. Do you think you are accomplishing some greater good when you send someone a message on social media that results in a divorce? If you think these sites are bad and want to work toward shutting them down, fine. But based on your post, you are spending considerable amounts of time on these sites yourself, observing their content, tracking users, contacting wives, following certain users from one site to another, etc. Somehow, what you are describing doesn't seem like it originates from an altruistic motivation.